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Can not believe i am back

« on: August 31, 2019, 04:45:32 PM »

Second time I married a BPD. Why could I not see it?


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Re: Can not believe i am back

« Reply #1 on: August 31, 2019, 05:24:58 PM »

Did you see it and maybe were just so caught up in the idealization phase that you ignored it?


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Re: Can not believe i am back

« Reply #2 on: September 02, 2019, 12:21:24 AM »

• Maybe something about this type draws you in. What is it? Are they exciting, sexy, passionate, fun? (This was true for me.)

• Do they remind you of some person in your family, so that this feels familiar?

• Are you a caretaker type? Or looking for someone with a BIG personality who is super sweet and showers you with attention?


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