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I have a question as to how I need to deal with the following: this is a very common occurance and it always comes out of nowhere
My unDX bf, hes sitting at the kitchen table having breakfast, I was busy doing housechores and came in the kitchen. I sat down to finish a coffee. He starts with the now infamous, huh , and huf. and a shake of his head.
So I ask, Is there something wrong, and he replies, curtly You tell me, and as always I say, Nothing.
I feel like its a bit of a game, or he wants attention, I'm not sure. I feel like I can't even look at him for too long or he thinks I'm up to something.. which I am not
I would like to know, how do I deal with these situations, I want to talk to him and tell him its not normal to think I'm pissed off all the time, cause I am not. And I hate having to explain my every action.
anyone? any recommendations
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maybe hes not a morning person and hes shutting you out?
if so, give some space. sometimes a huh and a huf is a push for space.
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