looking for advice

[Joey p]

Hi, I am not really sure how to begin but I have been with my partner over 1&1/2 years thats been diagnosed with bpd and severe depression. I am having a really hard time trying to keep my wits with all of the constant craziness thats become normal to me over time, we were living together for almost a year but during that time there was major unstabality with the relationship due to my partners disorder and I didn't realize what it was until about 3 months ago when I came across the psych. report that she went to get for me when we were in an argument during the first few months of dating and I accidently said she was acting Crazy and thats why she went and got the evaluation . I was not even aware that she had done it untill a month or so later when she threw it in my face and told me what she did & why. As of now she has rented her own apartment for the temp. but were planning to get back together at some point, just staying at my place on weekends or as needed , shes not willing to bring me to her place?

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[pursuingJoy]

Hi Joey p  Welcome. Glad you're here! The way you're feeling is a really common one, and it's what brought many of us to this board.

The behavior you're describing is all too familiar to us here. Check out this article and let me know what you think:
https://bpdfamily.com/message_board/index.php?topic=99725.0