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Modernchilli

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i am so new to this

« on: August 19, 2020, 04:20:35 PM »

My partner of 13 years has bpd.

I need guidance and support please help?


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Re: i am so new to this

« Reply #1 on: August 19, 2020, 07:27:06 PM »

Did your partner just receive a diagnosis? Can you tell us some of what led to where you are?

We're happy to help and support in any way we can.

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Re: i am so new to this

« Reply #2 on: August 19, 2020, 07:34:39 PM »

Quote from: Modernchilli on August 19, 2020, 04:20:35 PM

My partner of 13 years has bpd.

I need guidance and support please help?

Hi Modern,

Welcome. I'm just going to say hello - tell you this is a really great place. Go at your own pace and eventually you'll find the answers you'll need.

I'll wait to hear and see more before I say more.

In the meantime, know that you're not alone.

Rev


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