Extremely lazy gf

[ogratokam]

Hey, I just dont know. My gf (probable bpd) is such lazy. She complains I dont make time for her, but while I am at work and she has many duties, she is instead just laying on couch and bingeing TV series. So she has no time for together time when I come from work.
Also she spents like most weekends and holidays like that. She says for her the best spent day is spent bingeing TV series in pyjamas. I totally dont get it. How that could be idea of well spent time for someone. Lets just go visit someone, take a walk, play a desk game together or what. Also she is heavily neglecting her health etc.

Idk why she is just like that.

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