Not Sure How To Handle

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Hi,

I have been married for 14 years to someone I suspect has BPD.  It seems like things are getting worse and more unstable.  It might be because we are both working at home now and there is stress with his job.  I feel like I am constantly walking on eggshells. no matter what I say if it doesn't reflect that he is perfect, he gets mad and sometimes storms off.  This time, he stormed off to a family member's house and hasn't been in touch.  It makes me constantly wonder what did I do for this kind of reaction? I know it wasn't anything but I am even starting to doubt myself. 

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