Ventak
Do you communicate with her mental health team? They should know about the good and the bad.
Her "team" is for pain management. It is a special program that uses a wholistic approach including specialist doctors, naturopathic doctors, nutritionist, physical therapist, mental therapist, acupuncture, and I think one I'm missing. The physical therapist and mental therapist are not part of the clinic, but referrals that coordinate with the rest of the team.
I do not have access nor contact with them. In case of emergency I do know how to contact them, but they may or may not act on what I say... and with HIPAA I suspect I wouldn't ever find out if they did. I do not know the name of her current psychiatrist, but I know it came from our GP and I could probably get an emergency message to them through her.
She has trust issues regarding her medical information. Mostly because I shared with authorities her diagnosis for BPD, which she continuously claims I broke the law and am lying. I would have broken the law if I were one of her medical professionals, but I'm not. Her claim of lies is a huge stretch. Her official diagnosis is: Personality Disorder with Borderline and Anti-Social features. This could mean Borderline, it could mean Anti-Social, or it could mean comorbid of both (which I find likely if it is not solely Borderline). But it does not mean a clean bill of mental health, which is how she has chosen to interpret it based on the influence of her life damaging, man hating, therapist I found for her last year.
