Adult daughter with bpd. Need help and advice please

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My Daughter is now 41. She is getting progressively worse. She now feels that I am her enemy even though I have devoted my life to her. I am so sad, frustrated, and bewildered. I don’t know how to help her. I’m looking for a support group. Is there a zoom group available?

[Frustratedmom123]

My Daughter is now 41. She is getting progressively worse. She now feels that I am her enemy even though I have devoted my life to her. I am so sad, frustrated, and bewildered. I don’t know how to help her. I’m looking for a support group. Is there a zoom group available?

Our objective is to better understand the struggles our child faces and to learn the skills to improve our relationship and provide a supportive environment and also improve on our own emotional responses, attitudes and effectiveness as a family leaders

[Tulipps]

Hello Frustratedmom123 -
Sorry to hear how you're feeling. "Bewildered" is a good descriptor when trying to make sense of dysregulated emotions/behaviour. This is a good place to vent and explore because everyone here has experienced the roller coaster.
Have you heard about the 12-week Family Connections Program? Link: https://www.borderlinepersonalitydisorder.org/family-connections/
Groups are intended to be in person but might still using zoom.
Sending you a big hug.
T