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Author Topic: Soulmates? Or is it an illusion.  (Read 1952 times)
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« Reply #30 on: April 26, 2022, 10:43:55 AM »


I have thought of this quote a lot lately.   I absolutely feel that this is true of my ex.  I don't assume that he is only a soul mate to me, though from what I know of his previous ex's, none of them have gone through the work to "transform [their] life." etc. that I am doing.  I know now, less than two months out, that this relationship was supposed to happen to me.  It HAD to happen so that I could see how much I've been in my own way and to push me to get on with these dreams and goals that I have.  I needed to be broken open like this so that I can learn about myself and how I have held myself back, both professionally and in love relationships.  It feels as though he was sent to me specifically to teach me these things about myself.  And I can only be grateful to him for that.

This has helped me so much today to process things
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