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« on: July 05, 2022, 02:18:31 PM »
hope everyone is doing well Welcome new member (click to insert in post) and doing ok. A little followup on me. Gave up on law school, and looking for a new house as well. As for the person who caused me undo grief - I heard through other sources - she ended up with a bigger problem and a drug user. He actually moved in with her from what I heard. So I know I dogged a bullet.
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« Reply #1 on: July 06, 2022, 10:39:01 AM »
Maybe you dodged two bullets. As an outside observer, I know about a lot of “recovering lawyers” who would have thought twice about their career choice, had they known what they would experience.

Best of luck in your new endeavors.

Cat (wife of an attorney)
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« Reply #2 on: July 06, 2022, 10:44:27 AM »
Quote from: Cat Familiar on July 06, 2022, 10:39:01 AM
Maybe you dodged two bullets. As an outside observer, I know about a lot of “recovering lawyers” who would have thought twice about their career choice, had they known what they would experience.

Best of luck in your new endeavors.

Cat (wife of an attorney)
*hugs* Good seeing you. She probably got Karma, but I dont think she changed her ways, a tiger doesnt and cannot change its stripes not matter how hard, change has to come from within.
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« Reply #3 on: July 07, 2022, 03:05:36 PM »
Quote from: legalboxers on July 06, 2022, 10:44:27 AM
*hugs* Good seeing you. She probably got Karma, but I dont think she changed her ways, a tiger doesnt and cannot change its stripes not matter how hard, change has to come from within.

Atta boy...happy to see you being reasonable. I use the tiger stripe phrase all of the time. Ha.  :)Truly I wish you well my friend. You will be successful in whatever you choose to do. Just put yourself first and let the rest follow.

Cheers and best wishes!

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« Reply #4 on: July 07, 2022, 04:08:22 PM »
Quote from: SinisterComplex on July 07, 2022, 03:05:36 PM
Atta boy...happy to see you being reasonable. I use the tiger stripe phrase all of the time. Ha.  :)Truly I wish you well my friend. You will be successful in whatever you choose to do. Just put yourself first and let the rest follow.

Cheers and best wishes!

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I chose not to contend with. My feet and legs are giving me issues. I think its neurosis, not sure to be honest. Im seeing a neurologist. That is one dumpster fire I really dont want to revisit
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« Reply #5 on: July 09, 2022, 03:42:30 AM »
Hey LB, thank you for checking in and letting us know you are doing better! Way to go! (click to insert in post) Yes, I'm with Cat, I think you made some great decisions about the levels of stress you are able to cope with. Praying for you and the health issues.
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« Reply #6 on: July 09, 2022, 09:18:02 AM »
Quote from: khibomsis on July 09, 2022, 03:42:30 AM
Hey LB, thank you for checking in and letting us know you are doing better! Way to go! (click to insert in post) Yes, I'm with Cat, I think you made some great decisions about the levels of stress you are able to cope with. Praying for you and the health issues.
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There is a small part of me which feels sorry for her. If you want a laugh. I set up a specific ringtone for her. Nothing obscene. Daughtry "Life after you" so I figured she wouldnt call or anything...
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« Reply #7 on: July 10, 2022, 10:55:56 AM »
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« Reply #8 on: July 10, 2022, 11:03:30 AM »
Quote from: khibomsis on July 10, 2022, 10:55:56 AM
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