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Author Topic: 5.01 | Are we victims?  (Read 12366 times)
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« Reply #60 on: March 01, 2017, 06:16:22 AM »

I don't feel like a victim.  I do feel like I'm on a runaway bus. My instinct is to grab the wheel. I am working on realizing my child needs to grab her own wheel. It's harder to realize I may have to jump off the bus and let her take care of herself.  Every mother gene I have is screaming to stay with her. That's a lot of evolution to overcome. I'm only making progress for the sake of my other 6 kids and dh.
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