DD will start her house arrest soon

[peaceplease]

My dd will start her house arrest of 60 days on Feb. 4.  She is allowed to work, church and medical appointments.  Also, she will get one hour a week to grocery shop.

Her paternal grandmother is in nursing home.   My dd's hearing was on 1/3.  My exMil had stroke on 1/5.  My brother died on 1/6. My ex Mil had breast biopsy before her stroke.  Results are aggressive breast cancer.  She is so frail, and the dr. does not think that she is a candidate for sugery.  They will check her in three weeks.  She is not eating and not cooperating with therapy.  She is skin and bone.  She is high risk for surgery.  The dr. says that they are probably looking at comfort measures for her. I have no clue at how much time that she will have.

I am worried that she may pass while my dd is under house arrest. 

My dd keeps saying that she is worried that everyone is going to die.  My mother is doing okay, physically.   She has some dementia, and, of course depression.  She is 88 and buried two sons.

I have a feeling that it is going to be a long 60 days with my dd calling me and wanting me to be with her.   I hope that she has alot of work to keep her busy.

Our objective is to better understand the struggles our child faces and to learn the skills to improve our relationship and provide a supportive environment and also improve on our own emotional responses, attitudes and effectiveness as a family leaders

[pessim-optimist]

can dd get some visiting privileges, given the health of her relatives that could be substantiated by doctors?