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benny2

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fell off the wagon

« on: February 14, 2013, 06:20:06 PM »

well once again, I fell off the wagon and went over to see him. He seemed very determined to see me before I left on my trip. NC for 2 weeks and 2 days before I left he started texted me. Just don't get it when we are not even together anymore. Now that I am back, hes still texting and asking questions to see if I met anyone there. I just don't understand. He does'nt want a relationship with me, yet he does'nt want anyone else to get me?


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« Reply #1 on: February 14, 2013, 07:22:53 PM »

Have you tried communicating with using the staying board tools? Dearman may be one to think about, if you are interested in trying to make this relationship work.


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