Settlement and new friends

[Before you can make things better, you have to stop making them worse...]

Seems my stbxwBPDu has decided she may "allow" me to settle the divorce. She has put it on hold shile doing some maneuvering primarily designed to get me to move back home. She has offered this once before but it didn't happen. My hope is that it is for real this time. She text me and says now that she is giving me what I want that I should give her what she wants. That would be a friends with benefits relationship post divorce. I have post on here many times that this woman will never let me go. She still has a fantasy that we will be together. I have walkes a tight rope trying to get to the point she will let me go and let the divorce go through. In addition she is lunching with some new friends. These people just happen to work in close proximity with me. Colleagues in a loose sort of way. Don't want to say too much as im afraid she may peruse this board. My feeling is it a way to loosely monitor me and try and keep tabs. Also designed to make me jealous in a way and let me know whe is watching. In addition she knows I would not like her spreading dirt with these people, but she has shown she is capable of just that. She isn't going away. Hopefully a step closer to financial freedom, but emotional freedom is still elusive.

[lost007]

Seems my stbxwBPDu has decided she may "allow" me to settle the divorce. She has put it on hold shile doing some maneuvering primarily designed to get me to move back home. She has offered this once before but it didn't happen. My hope is that it is for real this time. She text me and says now that she is giving me what I want that I should give her what she wants. That would be a friends with benefits relationship post divorce. I have post on here many times that this woman will never let me go. She still has a fantasy that we will be together. I have walkes a tight rope trying to get to the point she will let me go and let the divorce go through. In addition she is lunching with some new friends. These people just happen to work in close proximity with me. Colleagues in a loose sort of way. Don't want to say too much as im afraid she may peruse this board. My feeling is it a way to loosely monitor me and try and keep tabs. Also designed to make me jealous in a way and let me know whe is watching. In addition she knows I would not like her spreading dirt with these people, but she has shown she is capable of just that. She isn't going away. Hopefully a step closer to financial freedom, but emotional freedom is still elusive.