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« on: June 21, 2013, 01:59:24 PM »
Hello,

Please keep us and my BPD.d in thoughts and prayers. My d's birthmom died suddenly. We know little details at this point. It appears to be that she took her own life. She had multiple physical and mental health problems. She has not been well for a very long time.

I had the opportunity to meet her before the birth of my daughter and we spent many hours together at the hospital when my daughter was born. Together, we planned the future and dreamed about our beautiful baby girl. We said good-bye, with intentions to meet again. That never happened for her and I, although my d. had reunited with her about 3 years ago.

For years, I dreamed about what I was going to say to her. I missed my opportunity and I regret with all my heart to never have seen her again. I can only do it now... . outloud, in my heart, speaking to the sky with all hopes that she can hear me.

Dear W. Thank you for the greatest gift I have ever received. Our baby girl is beautiful. Look at what we did together. We both gave her life... . we couldn't have done it without each other. I will be forever grateful. I will keep my promise to you... . to love our baby girl. I honor, respect and love you. Love you, yes. I wish you peaceful slumber.
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« Reply #1 on: June 21, 2013, 03:50:39 PM »
Im thinking of you and am with you on this, keep us posted, such a sad situation :'( so sorry to hear it too.
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« Reply #2 on: June 21, 2013, 04:47:14 PM »
Prayers lifted on wings of love are carried gently and swiftly towards the heavens and received with mercy.

Lifting you and your family up on wings of love as well Being Mindful.

 

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« Reply #3 on: June 21, 2013, 05:13:54 PM »
I'm so sorry, Being Mindful, for you, your daughter, and your family... .    

You are all in my prayers... .  
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« Reply #4 on: June 21, 2013, 05:30:53 PM »
Our Dear Being Mindful,

A beautiful soul has left, a wonderful being, who gave you so much joy.  How happy she must have been knowing her daughter would have a good home.   

You gave each other the happy memories welcoming your daughter.  Such a gift!

I think of you, often, Being Mindful and now I will yearn for goodness to come from this tragic loss... .

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« Reply #5 on: June 21, 2013, 05:38:28 PM »
being mindful... . how sad... . was your dd close to her birth mom? It is a reminder to all of us to take advantage of the time we have together while we can. My family lives far from me and when I talk to them on the phone I alway say I love you because you never know when or if you will get that chance again. I am sure dd's birth mom was happy to know her dd was with such a caring and loving person as yourself.  
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« Reply #6 on: June 21, 2013, 07:17:10 PM »
Blessings to you. I'm sorry. :\
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« Reply #7 on: June 22, 2013, 09:40:31 AM »
Oh Being Mindful such sad news, so sorry for you and your daughter's loss, you are in my prayers.  
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« Reply #8 on: June 22, 2013, 11:14:55 AM »
My thoughts and prayers are with you and your daughter. 

 

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« Reply #9 on: June 22, 2013, 02:39:29 PM »
I will keep all of you in my thoughts.  Such a difficult time for both you and your daughter.   

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« Reply #10 on: June 22, 2013, 03:02:24 PM »
Very sad to hear of your loss.  Healing Prayers to you and your family.

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« Reply #11 on: June 23, 2013, 04:25:29 PM »
Your post is beautiful!  I am joining you in prayer and sending my   !
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« Reply #12 on: June 24, 2013, 11:17:40 AM »
So sorry for all of your loss keeping you in our prayers :'(
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« Reply #13 on: June 24, 2013, 05:57:38 PM »
BeingMindful:  Just thinking about you and your daughter and hoping things are going okay.  Sending you lots of hugs and good thoughts.

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« Reply #14 on: July 01, 2013, 01:13:40 PM »
So sorry, Being Mindful.  Your d's mom may have been in a bad place if she took her own life, but I know that the gift she gave to you in your d gave her some peace.  May God hold you both in his hand in this difficult time. 
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« Reply #15 on: July 01, 2013, 10:31:33 PM »
Oh, Being Mindful      

I just found this thread... .    

Thinking of you in this difficult time of hurt for your dd... . It must be such a hard time for her - maybe, feeling like being abandoned all over again?

It is so wonderful she has you to be there for her... .    
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« Reply #16 on: July 08, 2013, 10:29:47 PM »
being mindful

how is it going? I have been away on vacation in a place without internet so I am home now and wondering how you are doing?
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