plz help

[stronger123]

Ok... . update... . it has been four months now since I left him ( on his bday) but his mind had already left me... . and I havnt even seen him face to face yet... . dont know where hes living but he planned it well... . moved straight in with someone else next day! I know my h has BPD all the traits are there ... . but he indinial! ! Hes contact ed my by txts randomly... . over the four months... . but will I c him again? I told him through a letter when I left that marrage was over due to his  mental health ... . he then comes to c my mum about 5weeks ago... . blamming himself asking how I am if our pets are ok... . if I have somebody else... . he was crying in short doses and didnt put any blame on me?  Any advice plz x

[simplyasiam]

sorry your having to deal with this.

is it your 1st time apart?

seem to me my ex always sent out feeler to find out about me and if i was still here for her.

i know for sure when my ex would reach out me and i would open up to her it would make her stronger know i was still hurting. she would never give in to me. would just show up when she was hurting

[stronger123]

No it happened to me 8 years ago ... . it only lasted 6 weeks its bn four months now. I need to talk to h face to face he knows that. But he busy withsomeone else.