NC= hiding?

[Xtrange]

I am in the divorce process. I stick to NC. But, I have to hide because she knows which places I would go or stay. Did that happen to somebody else? Once divorce is final, the chasing ends?

I am feeling paranoid, and thinking about she made an appearance and a do scandal anywhere.

[catnap]

After the divorce, she may or may not stop chasing you.  However, you can prepare yourself on how to respond/react.

Can you please give some examples of what you fear she will do or has done in the past? 

[Xtrange]

I decided NC because I don’t want all the emotional blackmail (FOG) again and some veiled threats (she knows lawyers, police officers and insinuated also a hit man)

She sent friends of her to find me at my mother’s house and the places that I work.

When the divorce papers were served, she initiated a car persecution in a mayor avenue and even I was with the lawyer and the court officer (and the police was present) she threw at me all the FOG for the divorce and tried to recycle me again.