Friends

[dangoldfool]

My ex GF. I was introduced by her Girlfriend who use to be my tenant. I was wondering how would my GF and the in my case ex tenant get along now. I stopped all contact, at this point, but when all this hit the fan, my ex tenant was as surprised as me or at least seem like that on the phone. The ex tenant filled me in on enough info, for me to figure out how bad thing had gotten. I never keep in close contact with the tenant because she is a drama queen and I hate that. But this ex tenant other male friend, who happens to be a registered sex offender, and my ex GF. Are now the new BF& GF. Lol. Sounds like a Jerry Springer show right.

So how do the female friends of a BPD relate to this? Maybe the tenant didn’t know about the BPD issue. But do the girlfriends drop them as friends?  My ex tenant told me, that when she introduced the sex offender guy( her friend) and my GF. She told my ex GF, not to get involved with the sex offender guy. And that I was a good man to stay with me. Obviously she did not listen. I guess she was already looking for an out. F---ing Bi--h.

So what happens to BPD friends when there is a breakup? Do the GF just pick sides and support the ones they like? Just curious.     

[Reg]

Hmm,

It make me think of something.  You said your ex tenant was a drama queen, and she has a friend who's known to the justice department for sex offences (now your ex GF her BF).  It already says something about your ex tennant, doesn't it ?

Reg

[ScotisGone74]

Yeah, so your exBPD's pal is friends with a known sex offender and is a 'drama queen' and acts as suprised as anyone about things.     Stay away... . stay far away.   

What I have learned is that the very few, close pal or two of my exBPD that I thought could give me answers or  provide any info-was doing and involved in the Exact same stuff as my ex BPD.  Steer clear, you won't find the answers you are looking for from them. 

[Reg]

Indeed, afterwards I've seen that my ex her best friend since childhood, a hetero woman who became all of a sudden lesbian, was in the same kind of relationship I was, and where one of the two or both suffered from serious BPD features.

Also curious, mine also became just like that again bisexual after she cheated on me with a known BPD from my street (revenge because she didn't get me), and after our relation she was all of a sudden lesbian, after that she had doubts again, etc etc.  All of her current female friends and or lovers are or known BPD's or have very serious features of BPD.  They do attract like magnets... .   They see the same none existing personality I guess.  They talk like parrots and mirror beyond belief... .

Steer clear indeed !