refusing to see me...

[Family Court Strategies: When Your Partner Has BPD OR NPD Traits.]

Every time something happens between me and my ex she refuses to see me because she says she has a weak spot and always will give into me. I think its funny because I always give into her too. I have never experienced what people call painted black. No matter what's going on between us if I text her she will always respond. I want to believe its because she is fighting the fact she wants a good relationship with me. Jut today she told me she wants me more than anything but ahe will justhurt me more and more... .she is very aware of her stupid behavior.

[AWest84]

Every time something happens between me and my ex she refuses to see me because she says she has a weak spot and always will give into me. I think its funny because I always give into her too. I have never experienced what people call painted black. No matter what's going on between us if I text her she will always respond. I want to believe its because she is fighting the fact she wants a good relationship with me. Jut today she told me she wants me more than anything but ahe will justhurt me more and more... .she is very aware of her stupid behavior.

[Aussie0zborn]

Good to see she is aware of her "stupid" behaviour but what role are you playing in this and what do you think she means when she says she will just hurt you more?

[dontknow2]

Hello Awest84,

Are you trying to get back together with her? It sounds like your lives are still enmeshed.