My AA sponsor constantly tells me to do nothing. Not nothing where there is no action but nothing to fight her... . I will never when a fight against her. I tried for far too long. I am making my AA meetings 3 nights a week. My sponsor is more concerned about my actions, my step work, my service, then how many AA meetings I go to.
Sounds like a good man.
I am no longer fighting them, it's not about her or me or who's right and who's wrong... . it's about my son and what is right and wrong for him.
And another good man. We're all proud of you.
I will have an opportunity to do that on the stand.
When you are on the stand, it is all about the judge and how he/she sees you. Nothing else matters. And these guys have seen it all so play it straight. He is going to want to see a self-aware man. A man remorseful for his digressions and committed to do the hard work.
Her attorney is going to try and rattle you - ask embarrassing questions - trip you up. How you perform in that triggering environment will be important. Listen carefully to your attorney. You need steady nerves, honesty, and no excuses - just answer the question - don't take the bait.
Attorney: Arn, given x, y, z, and that fact that you are a scuzball, wouldn't you say you are a danger to this child?
Arn: No sir, I am not a danger to my child. I love my child and I want a healthy environment for him all around.Rehearse. Be ready.
