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February 21, 2014, 02:04:38 PM »
Just got a message from ex telling me I left tax papers in his car... .
He's asking if I want them or should he throw them away... .
I can always get another copy again right?
Should I ignore this as an attempt to break NC?
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February 21, 2014, 02:15:10 PM »
I didn't have answers at the time... tried to get friends to communicate with him... and he
was threatening to throw away right then. So I had to message him when I really didn't want to.
It was through fb and unless you have an ongoing message with him or are friends with him you cannot
message him. I didn't now what to do... and didn't want my tax info out there.
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Now I'm hurting again and feel like I was literally backed into a corner
and forced to talk to him with no way out.
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I understand how you feel. I had a similar incident recently. I didn't reply.
Don't feel too bad. You didn't intentionally break NC. Just go back to NC now.
Good luck
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It was tax info... so I didn't want mine and my daughters social floating around
That sucked so badly. I went back and read his fb, and he was telling everyone what a C***
I was... . and accusing me of crap I didn't do.
So hurtful. ugh.
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He didn't apologize anything... now I'm struggling with texting him:
"What no sorry?" I am so p***ed he still hasn't said he was
sorry for that.
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