Does he have physical issues that hampers his abilities to care for a small child?
none that I know of, he does have kids and grandkids of his own
Have you done a background check on this person?
no but that's a good idea
Chances are your ex is using this guy as a free babysitting service.
yes and house repair and anything else she can squeeze out of him
What are the odds of this guy sooner or later getting on her bad side and being shut out of her life?
That's what has me confused, chances should be very high but this is the only person that has constant contact with her that hasn't been run off. my theory is she doesn't have to give anything back like a relationship or anything similar. so its a 100% take for her a win win.
Out of curiosity, did he pay for the cruise?
not sure, she refused to give me any info on the cruise. my main concern was my daughter, and I only asked if he had his own cabin or was he staying in the same cabin as her. My emotions and feelings are all over the place with this and I don't know what is my business and what isn't. my daughters best interest is my main concern but I don't want to be in the wrong either.
Ive done a pretty good job at keeping my feelings out of this but its not easy. although I wanted things to work out between me and my ex I have accepted that it cant because of her disorder and unwillingness to change her behavior. I cant and don't want to be with her because of that but for some reason it bothers me to think of her with someone else.
anyone else feel this way? I keep reminding myself what this person has put me and my family through and I really shouldn't care about anything concerning her but my daughter.
