JL
Things are hectic (for many years - (but improving (for now))
As I believe its improving especially after the first message
I then send the second one yesterday .
She was little more "defrosted" meaning more one-liners
"Knowing you the very best of everybody, I know that you are having a hard time (didn't say in pain)
and want you to know that i'm here for you - you only need to reach out"
[How would she interpret this text?]
She did not reply (obviously)
We are still on one liners, mainly regarding the children
(shes not the verbally abusive type - she goes into silent mode)
Where to go now ... .
What else can I say ... .