Nona update cps recommends dd go to BPDX

[nona]

child protection was called on me by BPDX.

he is attacking to take custody ad he now has d11 "scared of mama"

I have posted over in "parenting children with BPD" the details.

If you know me, please look over there and see the latest blow.

I know this will continue to unfold over along time, but now I have a few new pieces.

d11 has BPD behaviors... .period.

how will BPD dad do with BPD daughter, they are fully aligned right now.

Yet, she is mamas baby, most days are awesome and loving.

she gets triggered if she projects I am triggered it is confusing!

lawyer shopping... .

[ForeverDad]

Professionals are reluctant to diagnose minors with a PD.  (Yes you can look at adults and see how the traits were evident in childhood, but you can't do it the other way around with confidence.)  Something about their growing pains and behaviors being all over the map, etc.  So be concerned of course but don't fret overmuch about it.  Hopefully it's just her reflecting the tough situation she's in.  I think it could be "situational" behaviors, a response to the situation rather than what she herself is.