Thanks for filling in the blanks, kellygirl601
Your story sounds so much like many of the others on this Board, and you are probably already finding some comfort and insights by reading the other threads over here... .
You say that she has been on SSI; is she still covered? If so, wouldn't it cover some sort of Residential Treatment Center, or even a Dual Diagnosis Center/Program? If she has mental health issues combined with some other co-morbid diagnosis (Suicidal Ideations, Substance Abuse/Addiction, Social Anxiety, ADD, OCD, etc.), then a Dual Diagnosis Program would prove beneficial. Something like that treats the mental health issues as a priority, and the negative behaviors as co-morbid.
After 2 hospitalizations in a Psyche Ward for Suicidal Ideations, and 2 stays in a "normal" Rehab for a Heroin Addiction, my own BPD son (37) was finally admitted to a Dual Diagnosis Program where he was diagnosed with BPD, early last year. He is covered by SSD (Social Security Disability), not SSI, but it is still part of Medicaid and it covered his 21-day stay at the DDx Program, besides all of his other stays at Psyche Wards and Rehabs prior to that.
Now, he's 18 months clean and sober (yaaaay!), and in recovery from all of his many diagnoses and attending ongoing treatments. It amazes me how the proper diagnoses and treatments (and the information here regarding the communication tools and techniques, and my learning and consistently using them) can make such a difference in someone's life!
I'm so happy to hear that you found the right Therapist, and that she's getting back on the meds that are helping her. My own son is on an anti-depressant and anti-anxiety meds (and a thyroid med for a Hyperactive Thyroid that was diagnosed at age 20), and without them he does have a hard time just being alive. I'm not sure if a DDx Program would be recommended for your daughter, but maybe it could be discussed with her Therapist if she needs further help or treatment? Does her Therapist use DBT in her treatment? My son found that to be integral to his recovery and understanding of his troubles... .