Apologies arent just for the weak.

[Chasing_Ghosts]

The last message i sent my BPDexgf was a bit of a lecture and i feel not my place as im not her bf and from the sounds of it just probably made her feel more empty pushing her closer to addiction.

So I wrote an apology text...

If what i said to you last seemed like a lecture or judgement it wasnt what i intended because you deserve neither. I was trying to come from a place of care and concern because you matter to me. Regardless of my intent it wasnt my place and wrong of me. Know im here for you if you ever need someone to talk to or for support... i always will be. I hope youre doing well. Take care *insert exs name*.

Should i send this? Thoughts?

[Mutt]

It's been a few days. Did you send it?

I don't think that there's a right ir wrong here. The important thin I think is to understand that she is mentally ill. She may not give a response that makes sense or that you desire.

Well thought out message, it shows you have a big heart.