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Author Topic: No affection with her and the Replacement?  (Read 373 times)
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« on: October 29, 2014, 12:46:21 AM »

It's been almost 3 months since I've been N/C and I'm remaining N/C.   We're both college kids (just saying our ages to give an idea of our mindsets)

But occasionally I'll see a new post on instagram/facebook of my BPDex and the person she replaced me with 9 days after she dumped me.  She just met him literally.

The weird thing is... they hang out ALL day and talk ALL day and take pictures together and whatnot but, I have YET to see a single affectionate post.  Theres not 1 picture of them kissing, and NO "I love yous" in any of the posts they talk on, on facebook.  Theres no Silly heart emoji's such as  .  And theres hasn't been a SINGLE "You're cute" remark or post on anything.

Its basically just them talking normal and hanging normal.  Whats the deal for real.  When she was with me for 4 years, everytime she commented on a picture of mine, or post... .she'd flirt, tease, joke, say she loved me, or how cute or ugly (in a flirtatious way) that I was... with at least 100 heart emojis.

I don't understand.
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« Reply #1 on: October 29, 2014, 01:21:28 AM »

Its BPD games aimed at you my friend.
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