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Author Topic: What if two BPDs find themselves in a romantic relation ?  (Read 683 times)
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« on: November 14, 2014, 06:12:05 AM »

Just wondering ?
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« Reply #1 on: November 14, 2014, 06:27:52 AM »

Only one word comes to mind - Armageddon Laugh out loud (click to insert in post)
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« Reply #2 on: November 14, 2014, 06:43:40 AM »

Yes... The world blows up! 
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« Reply #3 on: November 14, 2014, 06:44:01 AM »

God that is a scary thought.  Actually I think that that would not happen... .they both would sense each other. Right?
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« Reply #4 on: November 14, 2014, 07:04:23 AM »

Perhaps it would be like putting a humidifier and a dehumidifier in the same room and letting them fight it out Laugh out loud (click to insert in post)
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« Reply #5 on: November 14, 2014, 07:44:47 AM »

I actually think my dBPDexbf is now in a rs with a BPD woman! If you see a mushroom cloud on the horizon, you'll know what happened there!  Laugh out loud (click to insert in post)

My ex cheated on me with her, he moved in after 3 dates. When he left her to recycle me, she tried to cut her wrists and threw an award winning tantrum. Then she started a huge smear campaign, started stalking me and him, teamed up with his ex wife and they became smear campaign besties. After a week she had a new bf, 10 years younger and posted about it on FB. She sent my ex a message telling him it was revenge on him. Then a month later she had a new bf who was a true believer and deeply into christ. She started posting 50 quotes a day about jesus this and that. When I left my dBPDexbf, she dumped the christian boy (no offence) and stopped quoting. She backstabbed the ex-wife bestie and went after my ex. She's now sending me pics of them together!

TBH, they are perfect fot each other!
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« Reply #6 on: November 14, 2014, 07:54:32 AM »

Sounds like an unlikely scenario. My exwife (BPD) used to really hate the BPD types. She thinks they're all egocentric drama queens and she is definitely not attracted. Not even in the "fatal attraction" way.

The mere suggestion that the should be BPD herself made her frantic, because some people she really hates have received that particular diagnosis.
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« Reply #7 on: November 14, 2014, 11:17:39 AM »

Seen it happen, it wasn't pretty. At all.

In a nutshell:

He was more dysfunctional than her,  and she really knew how to push his buttons.

Made for a lot of drama. A lot.
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