it's been one of the hardest days.

[irishmomma45]

I have a 25 year old daughter with BPD and she's doing things that I just cant understand.

Our objective is to better understand the struggles our child faces and to learn the skills to improve our relationship and provide a supportive environment and also improve on our own emotional responses, attitudes and effectiveness as a family leaders

[JRT]

I am very sorry to hear this, you seem very concerned. What is she doing?

Most of us here are on this site because we have a loved one that has has BPD and they have done something (or many things) that has us confused. We help one another find answers to our questions to better understand why our BPD's do what they do. You came to the right place.

[lever.]

Irishmomma-most of us are here because we find it difficult to understand our children's behaviour at times - both when theyput their own health and safety at risk and when their behaviour towards ourselves and others is puzzling.

Please tell us more and we will try to help.

In the meantime perhaps have a look at some f the links to the left of the page-sometimes they help bring a bit of clarity to what is going on.

I am glad you have found this site-I have found it to be a great help.