I've heard about them doing that. Why would they? I feel so lost in all this now.
"Why?" is something a non-BPD can never understand.
When you are enmeshed with a BPD person, you become the movie screen that they project things about themselves that they despise. (When falling in love, you are all of the things they like or admire about themselves; but once trapped in their web, the movie switches). You then become the embodiment of everything they despise about themselves, but cannot muster the strength to truly admit to themselves.
If you break up with a non BPD partner, it would be natural for them to feel a temporary rejection, self doubt, wish things could have been different, maybe they might even be emotionally mature enough to realize they had behaved badly, whatever it is that we feel when someone stops wanting to be intimate with us etc.
These "natural / normal" feelings are like poison / death / annihilation to someone with a fragile, emotional maturity of a three year old BPD's ego. Whatever they would naturally feel about themselves because of a break-up or rejection or abandonment, is projected onto the movie screen.
In essence what this behavior is telling you is that SHE IS A DANGER TO YOU. YOU NEED TO BE PROTECTED BY A RESTRAINING ORDER. The unspoken feelings of rage in herself are so unthinkable, she projects those feelings on to you. She is telling you that she feels an unconscious wish for destruction and retribution for being rejected, but these are feelings the BPD ego cannot accept about themselves, so you are made to be the embodiment of that evil.
By alerting the authorities that she believes you to be a danger to her, is a very scary message that the opposite is probably true.
BE VERY CAREFUL and if you see her in real life, disappear. She is stalking you, and doing to you everything she told the police you are doing to her.
You MUST be religious to the NO CONTACT. If she mysteriously or accidentally appears in a place you are, run away. You MUST treat every contact as a trap- a trap you do not want.
If what I'm saying seems harsh... .step back and ask yourself how harsh it is that someone actually took out a restraining order on an innocent victim.
You are in danger of being the target of BPD Vengeance.
Good luck-
Surg_Bear