At wits end

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My daughter whom is now 31 and has suffered from BPD for years has never been this bad. I am at such a loss anymore.  Help

[Exhausted109]

My daughter whom is now 31 and has suffered from BPD for years has never been this bad. I am at such a loss anymore.  Help

Our objective is to better understand the struggles our child faces and to learn the skills to improve our relationship and provide a supportive environment and also improve on our own emotional responses, attitudes and effectiveness as a family leaders

[ConnieThomas]

I have no words of advice but I can assure you that you are not alone.  My BPD daughter is 35 and she is worse than ever.  My goal every day is to just get through it.  I am raising her 15 yr old daughter (from birth) while BPD daughter comes and goes, wreaking havoc.  Sorry to offer no help but can and do commiserate.  I wish you well.

[Rapt Reader]

Hello, Exhausted109 &

Like ConnieThomas said, you are not alone, and every parent on this Board can commiserate with your situation 

Does your daughter live with you? Has she ever been in Treatment, or is she currently in Therapy? What kinds of symptoms and behaviors are giving you problems? Has something recently happened to make things even worse lately?

You are in the right place for solace, Exhausted109... .Please check out the links to the right-hand side of this page, tell us more of your story, and read all you can around here. We really want to help