I made every mistake in the book

[kc sunshine]

So sorry about your pain, 1minute! It sounds like she's in close contact with you though. Your situation seems like there is hope for reconciliation to it. I like what MapleBob had to say about learning more about validation.

I haven't heard from my ex in a few days now. I'm trying to breathe deep, feel the feelings, and not get desperate and text her.

I was on the detaching board for so long, but I think this is where I really should have been. Or maybe both?

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[MapleBob]

So sorry about your pain, 1minute! It sounds like she's in close contact with you though. Your situation seems like there is hope for reconciliation to it. I like what MapleBob had to say about learning more about validation.

I haven't heard from my ex in a few days now. I'm trying to breathe deep, feel the feelings, and not get desperate and text her.

I was on the detaching board for so long, but I think this is where I really should have been. Or maybe both?

I'm never quite sure which board I should be on! Pretty common feeling, I'd think. 

[1minuteatatime]

Well KC-

I am not in close contact, now.  She broke it off on 11/14/15(the day before her wedding anniversary)  She showed up unannounced on xmas and we fought on 12/26(the circular nuh uh that maplebob refers to)  On Sunday she told me never to text or call her again after our text fight.