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My experience with pwBPD:
Give them what they want whenever they want it or they are miserable and if you don't they will make you miserable so do everything they want or they will be miserable or they will make you miserable or if they are miserable they will not help themselves so we try to help them see what they can do to stop being miserable and they are miserable because we try to help them not be miserable in their never ending miserable lives of misery making us miserable so we end up miserable and they are miserable because we are misrable and they ... .AHHHHHHHHHHHHH
Lol, I'm going to work and it is a beautiful morning. I get the privilege of going to work, having a job and breathing fresh air in peace.
Need I say, I'm not miserable? Lol
Goodbye honey, Goodbye misery
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Quote from: JerryRG on April 18, 2016, 07:47:22 AM
My experience with pwBPD:
Give them what they want whenever they want it or they are miserable and if you don't they will make you miserable so do everything they want or they will be miserable or they will make you miserable... .
... .and if they're MY ex they genuinely expect you to read their minds and
intuit
what they want whenever they want it or ... .
Can't even manage the responsibility to ASK for what they want!
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Amen, brother!
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