Welcome mccarus: My daughter brought a book to her room that I found on her nightstand. It's called surviving a borderline parent. I fit some of the description but most fits her mom. . . .I want to read every book on the subject this week. I probably need tons of help and would like to find a shrink who knows about this stuff where I live in Detroit.
Many of us have a few BPD traits. It is only when you have 5 of the 7 that the label of BPD is generally given. This article might help:
IS IT BPD?How old are the children that are living with their mom? Are you seeking a therapist for you?
Do you plan to have a conversation with your daughter about the book?