definite pattern

[bus boy]

For a long time I've saw what I thought was a pattern but sin e I can't think like a person with BPD/ npd I didn't look to deep into it. Xw is very devious and manuplating by the way. So last easter, first easter s10 spent with me in years, his mother text me, s10 was not feeling well, he was very sick easter day and we had to leave my parents. Next day he was good as gold. This xmas, first Xmas in 5 years for s10 and I.  Just got a text from his mother, s10 has a very sore stomach. That poor boy always has a sore stomach when it comes to being with me on holidays.  She managed to chisel new years from me by her lawyer sending an email to my L at the eleventh hour, I did not want to quibble especially since it was sent so close to the beginning of the split up Holliday access. Xw I famous for this. I requested time for thanksgiving  one year, 10 days in advance and her L got back to my L minuets before the end of the work day on thanksgiving  weekend Friday.  With an answer of no and xw went away on the day I requested for thanksgiving  and left s10 home with a babysitter. It's  a never ending Mary go round.

[scraps66]

Other than recognizing the pattern it may be better to assume all of this information goes in one ear and out the other.  You cannot depend on information from a BP having anything but motive.  She may be expressing the fact that your son gets sick when not in her care building up her position as ultimate caregiver. 

[bus boy]

Xw certainly gives herself the title of ultimate caretaker.