Hi Momma hen,
It is sad that both of the kids you have with your ex are struggling with this situation. Why do you think it is that your ex does not educate himself on BPD? Do you feel like he acknowledges BPD as a diagnosis for your 16 year old?
In one of your other posts you said that her psychiatrist recently put a name to what's going on with her. He also said that BPD is a controversial diagnosis to give to someone under the age of 18, but that he has seen it develop over the last 7 years. Is your husband aware of her psychiatrist views regarding the possibility of her BPD?
We have a thread here about early signs of BPD in children that you might find interesting:
Early signs of possible BPD traits in your children To further explore the legal aspects of this situation, I also encourage you to take a look at our legal board:
Legal/Family Law BoardTake care