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« on: June 30, 2025, 05:10:11 PM »

I was recently split by my bpd female friend. We never really dated, but I thought about it..we met and became close friends at a local dog park and she would contact me several times a day and we talked for hours at times. I know she has paid trauma from her former workplace whichbshe cried over and doesn't have the best relationship with her half siblings.

About a month ago while I was having side effect reaction to a medication, i sent a pissed off text and a short argument later thst day..thst basically guaranteed the split.

We started to talk a little last few weeks and then I sent a really friendly text just talking about the weather or something.  The next day she said we can only talk at the park and thst the friendly text triggered all the bad thoughts of our fight and work trauma.
She never accepted my sincere apology a month ago and basically acts like our friendship was never that strong and we were just acquaintances ( hundreds of calls from her say otherwise)

I'm just going to avoid her as much as possible,  but this still stings. I had one bad day out of 300 and now I'm just a villian...it sucks
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