>My daughter probably has BPD (Meine Tochter hat wahrscheinlich Borderline)

[Nora87]

I'm slowly reaching my emotional limits. I'm apparently still experiencing parental burnout, and my daughter is showing very clear signs of BPD, although it hasn't been officially diagnosed yet. She often hurts me so much emotionally. Everything escalated so badly, partly because she had terrible experiences with her first boyfriend and at school. That's why my cousin, his wife, and I decided it would be better for her to get away from this environment and away from my toxic family of origin. I myself am also in psychological treatment. But experiencing all of this is so painful.

So langsam bin ich emotional hart an meine Grenzen. Ich bin scheinbar immer noch in dem Eltern -Burnout und meine Tochter zeigt ganz ganz deutlich Züge einer  BPD, allerdings noch nicht offiziell bestätigt. Sie tut mir oft emotional so so weh. Es eskalierte alles so sehr, unter anderem auch weil sie schlimme Erfahrungen machen musste mit ihrem ersten Mal jungen und in der Schule. Das ich und mein cousin und seine Frau entschieden haben das es besser für sie ist hier aus dem Umfeld raus zu kommen und weg von meiner toxischen Herkunfstfamilie.
Ich selbst bin auch in Psychologischer Behandlung. Aber dieses alles zu erleben tut so weh

Our objective is to better understand the struggles our child faces and to learn the skills to improve our relationship and provide a supportive environment and also improve on our own emotional responses, attitudes and effectiveness as a family leaders

[kells76]

Hi Nora87, glad you found the group 

Burnout is real when a family member has BPD. When it's your child, that is on top of already feeling worry and care for your child -- it's a lot to handle.

How old is your daughter? When did you start to suspect BPD? And is she receiving any kind of treatment right now?