How can I feel stronger so I can free myself ?

[Parents! Get help here!]

 Hello, I am new to the whole thing of seeking help. My daughter is 22 and has BPD and now has a 3 year old son who is autistic. I hit the trifecta. I am all alone and I don’t live, I exist. I feel like a mummy and fear and anxiety are my constant companion. I am drained financially, and emotionally. I have nothing left to give and do not talk and share since every advice people give me sucks and doesn’t work. I am afraid of getting cancer like my mother and all my life I looked after my parents as caregiver and slave and now I will do the same for my daughter until I die and this was my life. Slavery and abuse and heartache and hurt.

[Casablanca]

 Hello, I am new to the whole thing of seeking help. My daughter is 22 and has BPD and now has a 3 year old son who is autistic. I hit the trifecta. I am all alone and I don’t live, I exist. I feel like a mummy and fear and anxiety are my constant companion. I am drained financially, and emotionally. I have nothing left to give and do not talk and share since every advice people give me sucks and doesn’t work. I am afraid of getting cancer like my mother and all my life I looked after my parents as caregiver and slave and now I will do the same for my daughter until I die and this was my life. Slavery and abuse and heartache and hurt.

Our objective is to better understand the struggles our child faces and to learn the skills to improve our relationship and provide a supportive environment and also improve on our own emotional responses, attitudes and effectiveness as a family leaders