what the heck?

[BPDstinks]

Well...another Mother's Day   (Happy Mother's Day....I hope you made the best of) I have a weird topic, and I wonder if anyone would have a thought....my 26 y/o pwBPD (daughter) does not even respond to my texts anymore (this has been at least 9 months) (I have mentioned before) attached herself, to my mother (this is a great thing, my mother let's me know how she is), my sister (I still cannot wrap my brain around this....she DESPISED my sister, many years) and my niece (a very sad story (I know this sounds very negative, my niece had a very sad episode where her husband died (long story) and I was going to take her to dinner, my washer broke and I had wet clothes all over my basement (I took the clothes to a laundromat), thereby, missing dinner. my very favorite niece UNFRIENDED me (you can't make this up), again, pwBPD despised the niece, between my sister & niece she would beg to leave family dinners, etc. in any case, I already knew not to expect any Mother's Day acknowledgement (the first year I checked my phone ALL day) however, I saw a post from pwBPD, with my mother, sister, niece, saying Happy Mother's Day....I do not know if I am overreacting, but (I just want to cry, again) I just found that so hurtful (who are you Happy Mother Daying?) I have researched BPD....does it really make one CRUEL? because I took that as a slap....it just ruined my whole day (if I am being overly sensitive, feel free to tell me

Our objective is to better understand the struggles our child faces and to learn the skills to improve our relationship and provide a supportive environment and also improve on our own emotional responses, attitudes and effectiveness as a family leaders

[ForeverDad]

This happened over 20 years ago... I had called the police to report a domestic dispute.  By the time they arrived she had calmed down enough, though still angry and red-faced, that they asked me to hand our preschooler over to his mother and "step away".  He clung tighter to me so I wasn't carted off.  She gloated that they gave her a DV resources booklet.  A few days later, after I was able to copy my recording and file a report, she was arrested for (verbal) Threat of DV.  The case was months later ruled Not Guilty pursuant to case law since she didn't have a weapon in her hands.

After she was taken away I browsed our computer's history and saw she had blocked my email address on her email account.  During our entire separation, two year divorce and for many co-parenting years afterward, my email was still blocked.  For all I know, my email could still be blocked.  (Texts and calls aren't blocked.)