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Before you can make things better, you have to stop making them worse... Have you considered that being critical, judgmental, or invalidating toward the other parent, no matter what she or he just did will only make matters worse? Someone has to be do something. This means finding the motivation to stop making things worse, learning how to interrupt your own negative responses, body language, facial expressions, voice tone, and learning how to inhibit your urges to do things that you later realize are contributing to the tensions.
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« on: March 23, 2017, 07:30:27 AM »

Today, I must say is the first time in my sons 10 years that his mother agreed. Last night was s10's overnight access, this morning everything is shut down due to a blizzard, I text Xw, said I don't have to go in to work, it's nasty out, for safety reasons s10 should stay put with me. She didn't return my text but she text s10 and told him he could go home home when he wants if he wants to. WOW, I can't believe it, in the past she would demand he come home and a few times she used her puppet as a strong arm to get s10 home. I still don't trust her, she has to much of her father in her and what's in the ram is in the lamb but just the same today is a mile stone.
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« Reply #1 on: March 23, 2017, 12:25:45 PM »

It always feels good when something like this goes smoothly.

My guess though is she had better plans that would have been hindered had you followed the access time.
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« Reply #2 on: March 23, 2017, 02:51:37 PM »

Who knows, Xw has certainly caused me to think more cautious when it comes to her. She text at noon for me to take s10 home, I sent a pic of the storm, she replied she will be out in a couple of hours to get s10, her BF would of been off work at that time and she would of loved to involve him so she could get fat off of the control she has over him. I don't want her on my property so I text I would take s10 home.
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