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« Reply #30 on: April 21, 2017, 01:42:01 PM »



And... .what did you tell him in return?  Hopefully not much.

Take deep breath... .focus on your wants and needs.  If your hubby desires privacy, he can fix that without involving you.

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« Reply #31 on: April 21, 2017, 11:11:47 PM »

So sorry to hear. Why do you have to leave?... .other than him telling you to? I'm sure you don't want more conflict-and I am very similar which explains why I have trouble setting boundaries when hwBPD starts to push back. What I have realized is that he then thinks he is in control and keeps increasing the demands and verbal abuse and it doesn't help to keep the calm.
Is there somewhere you can go if he gets rageful or relentless?
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