Sammy wants to go back to school because she is bored. She was in school this year, but she would get very frustrated and couldn't keep her anger inside. Unfortunately she was suspended 3 times for violence
She begged me to put her into the alternate program , i think she thought it was going to be nice to be able to stay home all day and not go to school, i know that she is regretting it now.
Myself and the DR think that she has a learning disability, she finds it hard to understand a question. Even when me and you would think it is very easy , she has a very tough time understanding and grasping what the question is about, thankfully i have been working with her on her school work since she was very small so i know how to interpret the question for her to understand.
However, the Alternate program isnt much about hands on. I spoke to the teacher in charge today and he did confirm that they don't really have the time to be hands on and suggested that she continue with the alternate program and if she starts to show improvements than they can start to slowly have her going to a certain school a few times a week.
She was making progress with the booklets, UNTIL the Dr told her that she thinks going to school would be a good idea (the Dr's reasoning is because she wants to see her in a stable environment for her education, which i understand but at the moment it isnt possible).
The certain school that has been suggested, was mentioned to Sammy previously however she adamantly doesn't want to hear it, if it isn't the school that SHE wants it is impossible to talk to her about it
I was thinking today that i should go to the school and check it out for myself, than perhaps ill be able to know a little more about it and hopefully be able to talk to her.
Hi Sammysmom
I can see it's all very frustrating and a little confusing for you.
I think Sammy wants to go back to school and used "lack of help" as a lever. Her therapist thinks it would be beneficial for her to return to normal school.
I can see that you have some concerns about that. You've said you don't think she's ready because she's not completing her workbooks at home so she'd never cope with school. Is completing the workbooks at home your requirement to agree for her to go back to normal school? Have you considered that she doesn't want to do the workbooks, she's simply missing school and has changed her mind?
I'm not surprised your 15 year old daughter found it difficult to keep her composure in an appointment with the principal. It's a stressful environment and particularly emotional for her. I'd find that kind of situation quite intimidating myself to be honest.
It sounds to me that the current situation doing the workbooks isn't working out. What other options are there? Are there other schools that can be considered? Can she go back on an initial part time or phased basis?
What concerns or objections do you have about her returning to school? I obviously don't fully understand the situation so it'd help us get the picture.
has her therapy now stopped?
LP