Thanks Glenn, I remember the days I wasn't too fond of the truth behind your replies . But now thank you.
It's odd really last week I was really struggle as I was getting an intense vibe something was not ok with my x... I almost reached out... .
My post over the weekend and the conversation I had with his coworker really helped with the closure ... .knowing for sure this was not me, knowing he too sees his decline.
I have no counsilor right now, but even they and their legal team were baffled he was not removed.
The PO box wouldn't help with getting the outgoing mail picked up and I only called once thus far and that was handled well... but I was told he was not even working that day. And I only called because I wasn't sure if my mail pick up was flagged in their system. I avoid reporting Any of them unless it's something over the top crazy because for the most part they are decent at what they do. If anything over the years I have complimented them Actually only reported the x when he crossed in front of my car
I guess I have been painted black... .although I know he started it all with the RO, he clearly views things differently, so his lie about dumping me due to low self esteem in court was prob a ploy.
But even his coworker was ignored when he asked if he was ok... .this guy mentioned twice to me he's very concerned about him.
It's as if nothing has changed he's still slipping
I will think on it but if in passing I see the coworker again I may say I also notice he is just not normal and does management notice this as well ...
I know they can refer to a psych eval as my x mentioned it a few times.
So why they have not I have no clue .
I should have asked that guy what he was doing that made him say he wasn't ok.
As you may recall I tried getting him removed from this route ... and that fell on deaf ears so to speak.
I don't fear him... and we shall see if he starts looking for my outgoing mail.
It's just so odd the once flirty , fun person is gone ... and from what was relayed to me that person has not been around for awhile.
Of course he could have been very medicated today... .I never see him talking to anyone at all like he used to either ... .def going down hill
My biggest fear and this maybe nothing is him having a total break and going on a shooting thing at his office.
I'm working on getting a door bell camera just to be safe.
Hey! You handled your end of the conversation really good! Sounds like you grew stronger, and now realize you deserve better. Voluntarily holding up someone's mail by a postal worker may result in a federal offense and firing. You are painted black. Please tread very carefully if his firearms have been returned to him, and his behavior seems to be regressive. If you report the real reasons for holding up your mail, he may receive a serious reprimand, or worse. Can you speak with the people who were affiliated with your restraining order? Can a therapist get you a referral to free legal advice? I would evaluate this situation, and his precarious mental condition, very carefully before I act by getting all of the advice I can get. Also, I would temporarily rent a PO Box at my local post office asap until I felt secure this issue was resolved.