how to survive when lost children to UBPD

[nona]

Thats what happened to me and I want to talk with other nons who have experienced the same.

So much of the boards are about the strategy and surviving the battle, not much about when you lose to them

This happens.

I am a experienced loving grounded non violent not mentally ill Mother. There is NOTHING in my 57 years to justify this happening.

deviant derelict ex, crooked lawyers and courts, traumatized D!4

The crazy cluster b's  and the crooked messed up system seem to be the winners.

My daughter is well trained to cover up and look good on the outside.

Right now D14 looks well adjusted.

Of course she cannot have very many feelings.

Thousands of people advise counseling.

BPD controls all that.
BPD is her counselor.

He tells D14 "i try but I cannot behave with yur mother, we are toxic together.

He has D14 convinced it is just our personalities don't get along.

She LIED for him, still does. I asked her about lying and gilt. She says she has no guilt because she doesn't lie.

Now BPD dad thinks she has ADHD. She says OCD is interfering with her life.
Really ?

I wonder why.

Please talk to me I just need to know how others survived THIS stage.
Thx