Will the therapist be smart enough?

[java478]

So after reading online and watching youtubes about DBT I found an evening group for my daughter. That has to be combined with individual therapy and they don't offer that in the evenings. So I searched and searched for a therapist in another office trained in DBT that was doable with traffic. BUT, the thing I'm concerned about is that the Marsha Linehan video on treatment emphasizes the importance of a good individual therapist. This one is MS,  LAPC  and  only 2 years experience so far but has the DBT training and focuses on many characteristics of what my daughter struggles with. I'm thinking it's worth a try since otherwise she won't be able to even participate in group. It's very difficult to work on therapy and hold a job during regular office hours. I'm thrilled she is that stable, but that could fall apart if the evening help is not there. Anyone else struggled with the qualifications of therapists?

Our objective is to better understand the struggles our child faces and to learn the skills to improve our relationship and provide a supportive environment and also improve on our own emotional responses, attitudes and effectiveness as a family leaders

[wendydarling]

Hi there java478

Hey, you've been busy it's good to hear you have options. I'm in the UK, my 29DD was treated via our national health system, we do not get a choice.  Over 14 months my DD had two DBT therapists, she loved them both, DD was very committed.  Personally, I'd definitely snap this young therapists hand off in your position and I'd not mention any concern that may cloud her perception as you pass the responsibility to your daughter to engage.

WDx

[livednlearned]

Hi java478,

I wanted to join wendydarling in saying hello 

It's wonderful that you were able to find a therapist trained in DBT skills.

My experience is that you can have good and bad therapists, but it's not necessarily about how long they've been practicing.

Do you know if the individual therapist has a group she turns to for advising? The counselor that my SD20 saw for many years was trained in DBT, and apparently she (the T) met with a group of both junior and senior counselors, to get support following DBT practices with clients.

I wonder if the T you are thinking about has a group like that?

[java478]

Wendydarlind and livednlearned both gave me things to think about and ask. It is true that sometimes a young therapist is eager and at least up on the latest. If the therapist is supported by  someone experienced, that could be a nice balance.  Thanks for weighing in and I hope things are going well.