Hi faith69
Welcome to the community.
I'm so sorry what brings you here, you've come to the right place for support, parents here understand, many in similar situations to you, you are not alone. You are heartbroken, I'd be in your situation, it's so very tough when they can't help themselves, are abusive. What kind of behaviours have you been dealing with? Do you think he's projecting? Projection is a defense mechanism, operating unconsciously, in which what is emotionally unacceptable in the self is unconsciously rejected and attributed (projected) to others. Projection is denying one's own unpleasant traits, behaviors, or feelings by attributing them, often in an accusing way, to someone else
Members discuss projection here, let us know what you think -
BPD Behaviours: ProjectionI'm glad you've found us, we are here for you.
WDx