Hello All,
I hope everyone had a good weekend.
. I have been seeing a guy who I’m positive has BPD- he displays A lot of the signs. He used to act so attached to me, cried once when he thought I may stop dating him. I’ve never seen a man cry like that before over a dating situation... .! Fast forward 7 or so months, it’s been like an up and down roller coaster. He used to act like he liked me aLoT- then he started being distant... .he would still want to spend lots of time with me, his daughter and my daughter Too. If we were Alone, he wanted to spend lots of time with me as well.
Now, we got pregnant unexpectedly! It was a total surprise and Shock for Both Of Us. At first he really freaked out and was Really Mean to me. He kept saying he is “only here for the baby” and “his heart is not in this”- meaning, with me.
And the last week and a half, he has suddenly been really sweet with me- taking me out to the movies, he made me dinner tonight at his place, but he told me that we are “just friends”. He still however tries to get me to sleep with him when we are alone most of the time. And I’ve caught him staring at me Many Many Times. I once even woke up at night (I was half asleep, but something made me open my Eyes) , and I cAught Him Staring at Me in my SLEEP!
