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Frankee

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You are loved

« on: September 11, 2018, 04:13:38 PM »

I wanted to say that you are loved.
We all make mistakes, we are human.
We all face challenges where we don't always take the right path. It's how we learn and grow. Trial and error.
You are trying your best.
You won't always have good days or even days where everything goes even close to right.
There will be times where there seems to be nothing but dark skies.
We're here for you. You deserve nothing less than good things.
No matter where you are on your journey, you are not alone. Do not be afraid or ashamed to talk about it.
You are on a difficult road that most won't understand.
Where ever you go and whatever happens, you are loved. You are a wonderful person.


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pearlsw

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Re: You are loved

« Reply #1 on: September 11, 2018, 04:16:59 PM »

Hi Frankee,

Wow! You absolutely made my day! What perfect timing!

to you!

thanks for sharing this!

~pearl.


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Re: You are loved

« Reply #2 on: September 12, 2018, 09:28:13 AM »

I am more than happy too. I think we all need to hear it more often.


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WonderingGirl

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Re: You are loved

« Reply #3 on: September 12, 2018, 10:09:39 AM »

This is definitely something I needed today!

Thank you, its great of you to remind everyone of the things we forget about the most.


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Re: You are loved

« Reply #4 on: September 13, 2018, 01:16:50 AM »

I like seeing this on the board! Makes me happy all over again every time I read it!

warmly, pearl


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Re: You are loved

« Reply #5 on: September 13, 2018, 07:17:35 PM »

Welcome new member (click to insert in post)


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Re: You are loved

« Reply #6 on: September 13, 2018, 08:07:26 PM »

Thank you for this small act of kindness, paying it forward, I hope you will hear it again on your own journey, Frankie


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Re: You are loved

« Reply #7 on: September 13, 2018, 10:57:25 PM »

Frankie, ,
I know most of that
I believe all of it
I've been fortunate enough to have had a lot of it told to me at various times in my life
Still SOO nice to read it NOW because it's been WAY TOO LONG !

Thank you! NGY


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