How she tries to reconnect

[Dunder]

My ex is now down to sending me a single sentence love note every 6 months or so. I got one last night: “I’ve never stopped loving you for one day.”  Does anybody’s other ex send little notes like this out of the blue?

[Red5]

My ex is now down to sending me a single sentence love note every 6 months or so. I got one last night: “I’ve never stopped loving you for one day.”  Does anybody’s other ex send little notes like this out of the blue?

Hello Dunder,

Out of curiosity, is she sending you a text message or is this an actual paper card, or letter; note through the mail?

Just curious,

Kind regards, Red5

[Dunder]

Hello Dunder,

Out of curiosity, is she sending you a text message or is this an actual paper card, or letter; note through the mail?

Just curious,

Kind regards, Red5

 
Hi Red5,
They are email messages. 

[Red5]

 
Hi Red5,
They are email messages. 

Hmmm, six month interval, .maybe she is trying to see if you are still available to her.

I’ve read a lot about how we are “supply”, and the pw/BPD-npd must ensure that if they can’t move forward then maybe they can “move backwards” as in re-enter our lives again.

Which to me is possibly destructive to us.

My first wife... .about a year after the divorce was final, she calls me out of the blue... .in tears... .and says to me “you were right about me all along”... .

I asked her if she was alright and if she was in any danger... .and suggested that she call her sister... .

I did not ever hear from her again until another year had passed and she wanted to see the kids... .who were now all teenagers by this time .

That was about twelve years ago now.

I guess they feel like we do sometimes... .and feel the need or urge to reach out to us... .especially if things are not going well for them... .

Red5